Work was stressful. Sean didn't want to burden his family, so he leaned on a coworker and it lead to an affair. Here's his story.
If you cheated, there is a pretty dang good chance you were a totally sh*t spouse during your affair and a fairly sucky one before.
For Catherine*, 26, cheating on her longterm boyfriend with a work 'If your partner starts talking about having a work husband/wife it.
In most previous jobs, had work wives. Cheating, emotional or physical, is when you keep it a secret from your wife/husband/partner.